Beside Still Waters

Update, March 2020: A PDF of the whole book is now available for download for anyone who needs it for digital / virtual shiva minyanim in this time of pandemic: BSW Complete Manuscript. [pdf] May the Source of Mercy bring peace to all who mourn and comfort to all who are bereaved.

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Order Beside Still Waters now from Ben Yehuda Press! Copies are $18 and there is a discount available for bulk orders of 10 or more.

The table of contents and excerpts from the book are available via the Look Inside This Book feature on Amazon, and also here as a pdf: BSW preview. [pdf].

Praise for Beside Still Waters

This small book is filled with wisdom, both ancient and modern. It is meant specifically for spiritual leaders, i.e., rabbis, Chevra Kadisha staff, prayer leaders, and counselors. But its readings can provide comfort for mourners at all stages of the process. It should be considered for every Jewish library; we all can use its kind words. — The Association of Jewish Libraries (read the whole review here)

[T]he meditations in Beside Still Waters: A Journey of Comfort and Renewal, a collection of “liturgy both classical and contemporary for different stages along the mourner’s path” edited by Rabbi Rachel Barenblat, fill a real need. — Rabbi Jack Riemer (read the whole review here)

Beside Still Waters is a treasury of loving, comforting Jewish wisdom offered to support us in times of loss and grief. It is like having a wise, warm friend when you need that most. In my own time of loss, it became that for me. — Rabbi Marcia Prager, author of The Path of Blessing and dean of the ALEPH Ordination Programs

This is a wisely constructed and genuinely beautiful book. Beside Still Waters  weaves ancient practice and new traditions into a totally approachable and readily usable companion that will help carry people through each phase of illness, death, mourning and healing, with honesty, compassion, wisdom and love. May those who turn to this book in time of need discover that they are not as alone as they likely feel, are more supported than they may know, and that a place of genuine comfort is there for them no matter what. — Rabbi Brad Hirschfield, Co-president of CLAL, the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership

Beside Still Waters is a sensitive, beautiful and contemporary re-invention of Jewish liturgy, ritual, and wisdom surrounding the end of life.  Many talented poets and liturgists have contributed to this companion to those who are grieving, healing, and accepting. Their words offer a variety of practices and beliefs, addressing a multitude of human circumstances — some that are traditionally marked and others once overlooked.  Facing into the dilemmas and mysteries of our existence, Beside Still Waters is a friend to those who mourn, those who face their own death, and those who ask questions about the meaning of life and its end. Whether you are facing a dying, a funeral, a shiva, a yahrtzeit, or the lack of a mourning structure to hold your grief, there is something for you here.  — Rabbi Jill Hammer, Author of The Jewish Book of Days: A Companion for All Seasons and co-founder of Kohenet: The Hebrew Priestess Institute

Beside Still Waters is a collaboration between Bayit: Building Jewish and Ben Yehuda Press.

Order Beside Still Waters now! Copies are $18 and there is a discount available for bulk orders of 10 or more.

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